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Simple steps to Boost Your Teen’s Self Esteem (Part 1)
By Mother | April 14, 2008
The teenage years can be really tough for both the teen and the parent. They are marked by an increasing desire for independence, and, all often times, struggles with low self-esteem. However, while the need for independence is certain during your child’s journey to adulthood, low self-esteem doesn’t have to be.
It may seem difficult to get through to your teen, because they seem to be more interested in what their friends have to say than your opinions. But there are some things you can do to shape up your teen’s self-esteem.
* Talk to your teen. And more importantly, listen to what she has to say. Knowing that you care about her thoughts and opinions is good for her self-esteem. And as much as she may not want to accept it, having you share your thoughts with her will make her feel good as well.
* Share stories from when you were a teen. This may induce some eye rolling, but it’s good for your teen to know that everyone goes through some awkward times at her age. When she is having a tough time, remembering that will make her feel better.
* Accept your teen for who she is. You may not agree with her choices of clothing, hairstyle, or music, but if they’re not causing any harm it’s important to accept them. Your teen needs the opportunity to express herself, and being allowed to do so as much as possible will make her feel better about who she is.
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April 15th, 2008 at 9:14 am
kids or teens has different problems .. friends can affect there self esteem ..